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Think about it from her point of view and see what kind of solution you come up with. Also, use the strategies from the section on Basic Psychological Principles from the book, and work on your confidence treadmill. I think you'll realize a lot of benefit from using those strategies.
Next time, a suggestion: Don't ask her to get coffee. Assume she will. (Cocky!) TELL her, *You deserve a nice relaxing break after your shift. I'll tell you what - I'll put a smile on your face if you meet me for some coffee. I'll meet you at 9:00.* Don't give her a choice, or she'll choose the wrong one. Take control... and persist where it makes sense. If you think the boyfriend is real, I'd move on to more available talent. |
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FIRST, you must become this unstoppable force. THEN, you get the woman. Remember the following line from SCARFACE? *In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the woman.*
Well, there IS some truth to that, but the MORE ACCURATE statement would be: *FIRST you must gain MASSIVE SELF-ESTEEM, EMOTIONAL STRENGTH, and DOMINANCE. THEN you get the WOMAN* Once you are in the RIGHT STATE OF MIND, you will then become VERY resourceful with the right things to say and do. NATURALLY. You see, although there are a lot of guys who say they have the *most sophisticated and latest hypnosis* techniques to get you women, the truth is that YOU ALREADY HAVE THE MOST SOPHISTICATED, ADVANCED, AND EVOLVED weapon for success- it's your highly evolved human BRAIN. |
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Now, let's say you saw another guy come in, who seemed a lot more relaxed, a good mood, he teases some girls about their wacky outfits, and as they laugh he winks, walks away and gets himself a drink. On the way there, he bumps into a couple of girls and tells them jokingly to stop feeling him up, and at the bar he casually starts talking to some girls beside him about some latest gossip about JLo and Ben Affleck.
Pretty soon, the original girls he met (who he has actually forgotten about since he planned to actually chat it up with ALL the girls there and so they were not the main thing on his mind) are walking by, they see him with these other girls and make eye contact anyway. Okay, FREEZE FRAME. Do you see what is going ON here? There is a LOT going on here. The first guy has done a set of actions that conveys a certain MESSAGE about himself. The SECOND guy has done a DIFFERENT set of actions and conveyed a DIFFERENT message about himself. |
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To do this with a woman, you must be much more gentle, but the situation is much the same.
- You say something to her that could be interpreted as serious, but you are really joking. - You let her think you're serious for a short period - You then let her in on it for a sheepish laugh It's a form of teasing, pure and simple. It takes some refinement to know when and where to stop, but it works WONDERS with especially attractive women who are used to getting their own way and manipulating men. You want to strip away this pretense as soon as you can, and busting her balls is how you get there. |
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